Stop Drifting.
Start Building.

Most men don’t lack ambition.
They lack clarity, discipline, and direction.

Most men don’t lack ambition.
They lack clarity, discipline,
and direction.

Why This Works

This mentorship works because it deals with reality — not theory.

Most men don’t need more information. They need structure, accountability, and clear expectations. When discipline replaces drift and responsibility replaces avoidance, change follows.

This work is grounded in Scripture and carried out through consistent action, not guesswork or hype.

The Three Core Pillars

These pillars create stability and direction. They are simple, demanding, and effective. And they support everything we work on together.

These pillars create stability and direction. They are simple, demanding, and effective.

And they support everything we work on together.

Biblical Foundations

We build on Scripture as a source of order and authority, not inspiration alone. God forms men through obedience, discipline, and responsibility. This mentorship is aligned with that pattern.

3-Hour Kickoff Call

We begin with a long, honest assessment of your life. Habits, patterns, responsibilities, and blind spots are examined clearly so the real work can begin with clarity instead of confusion.

Daily Support 24/6

Men drift when they’re alone. This mentorship removes isolation through consistent access, accountability, and correction throughout the week. When something starts slipping, it’s addressed early.

The Five Wisdom Frameworks

These frameworks help you see your life clearly: where you’ve been, where you are now, and where your current direction leads. They’re practical tools you’ll continue using long after mentorship ends.

Position, Trajectory, Momentum

Learn how to assess your life honestly: where you stand, where your habits are taking you, and what must change to alter your direction. This framework gives you a clear way to course-correct instead of drifting blindly.

The Three Reconciliations

Men weaken when key relationships remain fractured. This framework identifies the three reconciliations every man must make in order to build a stable life, and shows how to begin repairing them.

The Narrow Passage

Growth requires pressure. This framework teaches how to endure difficult seasons without collapsing, numbing out, or quitting, and how discipline produces lasting change over time.

The Men’s Life Map

A clear map of masculine development: what a faithful, responsible life looks like, where men commonly go wrong, and how to build something that lasts across generations.

Self-Esteem, Self-Discipline, Self-Respect

Modern culture promises confidence without responsibility. This framework explains why discipline comes first, and how self-respect is built through ordered action, not affirmation.

Are You...

Living below your capabilities

Stuck in habitual sin

Trapped in work that drains you

Lacking direction or purpose

Carrying unresolved bitterness or resentment

Growing distant from your wife, family, or friends

Undisciplined in habits and follow-through

Going through the motions without conviction

Knowing God calls you to more but unsure how to build toward it

I’ve worked with men at many stages of life. Young men trying to find their footing. Fathers carrying more weight than they know how to manage. Older men who waited too long to address drift.

The problems look different, but the pattern is the same. When discipline weakens and responsibility is avoided, confusion follows.

Scripture is not limited in its reach. It speaks to the whole man and provides what is needed for correction, training, and growth. (2 Tim 3:16–17)

Real Results from Real Clients

John, 45

Freedom from fear and spiritual stability

John, 45

Freedom from fear and spiritual stability

John, 45

Freedom from fear and spiritual stability

Chris, 29

Lost 30 pounds and rebuilt discipline

Chris, 29

Lost 30 pounds and rebuilt discipline

Chris, 29

Lost 30 pounds and rebuilt discipline

Ben, 22

Gained clarity and direction for life

Ben, 22

Gained clarity and direction for life

Ben, 22

Gained clarity and direction for life

Your Free Call With Me

Your Free Call
With Me

On this call, we’ll take an honest look at your life as it is today and the direction it’s heading. I’ll ask direct questions to help you see patterns, responsibilities, and decisions that may be holding you back.

This is not a motivational conversation. It’s a clear-eyed assessment.

By the end of the call, you’ll understand your current Position, Trajectory, and Momentum clearly. If it’s clear that mentorship would be useful, we’ll discuss next steps. If not, you’ll still leave with clarity about what needs to change and why.

Every call also includes a free copy of my Position, Trajectory, Momentum guide. This framework will help you evaluate your life honestly and make better decisions moving forward.

This call is for men who are ready to take responsibility and act on what they learn.

bald man on video call with client
bald man on video call with client
bald man on video call with client

What You'll Gain in 12 Weeks

Discipline and confidence

Learn to follow through on decisions without constant second-guessing. You’ll build resilience, self-command, and steadiness under pressure so you can handle responsibility without avoidance.
(2 Cor. 4:8–9)

Discover the calling God gave you

You’ll identify where your abilities, responsibilities, and convictions converge. This is not about chasing feelings, but understanding where God has placed you to work, serve, and build faithfully.
(Isa. 58:9–10)

Renewed physical and spiritual discipline

Strength in body and strength in faith are not in conflict. You’ll establish disciplined routines that support both, building habits that sustain energy, clarity, and obedience over time.
(1 Tim. 4:8)

Freedom from shame and habitual sin

You’ll confront destructive patterns directly and replace them with ordered habits and accountability. Freedom is sustained through discipline, not avoidance or isolation.
(Gal. 5:1)

A new perspective on your past

You’ll learn to interpret your past honestly, without denial or self-pity. Burdens, failures, and losses will be placed in proper order so they no longer control your decisions or identity.
(Rom. 8:28–31)

Brotherhood and accountability

You won’t walk alone. You’ll be connected with men who take responsibility seriously and are committed to correction, honesty, and mutual support.
(Ps. 133:1)

Leadership in your marriage, family, and community

You’ll learn how to lead through consistency, responsibility, and presence. If you’re married, this means becoming a steadier husband and father. If you’re single, it means preparing yourself to pursue marriage with clarity and purpose.
(1 Cor. 16:13)

Why I Can Help You

Bald man in black shirt
Bald man in black shirt
Bald man in black shirt
2012
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bald man in red punching a punching bag
bald man in red punching a punching bag
2025

I didn’t grow up Christian.

For many years, my life lacked discipline and direction, and it showed. I was overweight, unfocused, and searching for meaning in places that couldn’t sustain it. I avoided responsibility more often than I faced it.

Over time, through repentance, discipline, and obedience to Christ, my life began to change. My health improved. My habits came into order. My priorities became clear. Not all at once, but through steady obedience.

Today, I’m a husband and father, committed to building a faithful life over the long term. I’m not sharing this to present myself as an example to admire, but to make one thing clear: I know what it’s like to rebuild a life from the inside out.

I’ve walked through failure, shame, confusion, and correction. I don’t approach men from above them. I walk alongside them, with clarity, structure, and accountability rooted in Scripture.

Christ is the standard. I’m not. But I know the work required to move toward Him with integrity.

“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.”
— Romans 8:28

Working Together

Pierre F.

Strategic clarity and career advancement

Pierre F.

Strategic clarity and career advancement

Pierre F.

Strategic clarity and career advancement

Ryan S.

Overcame isolation and began pursuing marriage

Ryan S.

Overcame isolation and began pursuing marriage

Ryan S.

Overcame isolation and began pursuing marriage

Stephen M.

Stopped drifting, became a husband & father

Stephen M.

Stopped drifting, became a husband & father

Stephen M.

Stopped drifting, became a husband & father

JOHNATHAN W.

Life direction and clarified personal values

JOHNATHAN W.

Life direction and clarified personal values

JOHNATHAN W.

Life direction and clarified personal values

Benito S.

Honest counsel rooted in the gospel

Benito S.

Honest counsel rooted in the gospel

Benito S.

Honest counsel rooted in the gospel

Jeremiah H.

Clear-eyed insight and direction

Jeremiah H.

Clear-eyed insight and direction

Jeremiah H.

Clear-eyed insight and direction

Kevin S.

Deep listening and wise counsel

Kevin S.

Deep listening and wise counsel

Kevin S.

Deep listening and wise counsel

Ben M.

Life direction and renewed vision

Ben M.

Life direction and renewed vision

Ben M.

Life direction and renewed vision

Chris Y.

Lost 30 pounds, strengthened his marriage

Chris Y.

Lost 30 pounds, strengthened his marriage

Chris Y.

Lost 30 pounds, strengthened his marriage

John U.

Freedom from fear and spiritual stability in Christ

John U.

Freedom from fear and spiritual stability in Christ

John U.

Freedom from fear and spiritual stability in Christ

Working with Will Spencer and having him as a mentor has been one of the most life-changing and positive influences of my life…

Working with Will Spencer and having him as a mentor has been one of the most life-changing and positive influences of my life…

Working with Will Spencer and having him as a mentor has been one of the most life-changing and positive influences of my life…

Frequently Asked Questions

How is this different from therapy?

Therapy focuses on introspection through processing feelings, and often operates from a mystical framework. This mentorship is biblical. I use Scripture as the sole infallible foundation for your transformation.


How is this different from therapy?

Therapy focuses on introspection through processing feelings, and often operates from a mystical framework. This mentorship is biblical. I use Scripture as the sole infallible foundation for your transformation.


How is this different from therapy?

Therapy focuses on introspection through processing feelings, and often operates from a mystical framework. This mentorship is biblical. I use Scripture as the sole infallible foundation for your transformation.


Do I need to be a Christian?

Yes, or you need to be very ready for biblical truth. I work with men at all stages of faith: from new believers to mature Christians. What matters is your willingness to submit to Scripture as the authority for your life.

Do I need to be a Christian?

Yes, or you need to be very ready for biblical truth. I work with men at all stages of faith: from new believers to mature Christians. What matters is your willingness to submit to Scripture as the authority for your life.

Do I need to be a Christian?

Yes, or you need to be very ready for biblical truth. I work with men at all stages of faith: from new believers to mature Christians. What matters is your willingness to submit to Scripture as the authority for your life.

What are your theological distinctives?

I'm a member of a Reformed Presbyterian church that adheres to the Westminster Confession of Faith (1647). We are currently a candidate church with the Communion of Reformed Evangelical Churches (CREC) denomination. I am a five-point Calvinist, Post-Millennial, and my church practices both Paedobaptism and Paedocommunion. However, I have worked successfully with men from Arminian, Credobaptist, and Pentecostal/Charismatic backgrounds.

What are your theological distinctives?

I'm a member of a Reformed Presbyterian church that adheres to the Westminster Confession of Faith (1647). We are currently a candidate church with the Communion of Reformed Evangelical Churches (CREC) denomination. I am a five-point Calvinist, Post-Millennial, and my church practices both Paedobaptism and Paedocommunion. However, I have worked successfully with men from Arminian, Credobaptist, and Pentecostal/Charismatic backgrounds.

What are your theological distinctives?

I'm a member of a Reformed Presbyterian church that adheres to the Westminster Confession of Faith (1647). We are currently a candidate church with the Communion of Reformed Evangelical Churches (CREC) denomination. I am a five-point Calvinist, Post-Millennial, and my church practices both Paedobaptism and Paedocommunion. However, I have worked successfully with men from Arminian, Credobaptist, and Pentecostal/Charismatic backgrounds.

Do you work with Roman Catholics and Eastern Orthodox believers?

The Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox churches appeal to bodies of tradition which are not based on scripture, and with which I disagree. If you are wanting to have your theological and ecclesiastical views challenged during the mentorship—but for your benefit—book a free call and we'll see.

Do you work with Roman Catholics and Eastern Orthodox believers?

The Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox churches appeal to bodies of tradition which are not based on scripture, and with which I disagree. If you are wanting to have your theological and ecclesiastical views challenged during the mentorship—but for your benefit—book a free call and we'll see.

Do you work with Roman Catholics and Eastern Orthodox believers?

The Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox churches appeal to bodies of tradition which are not based on scripture, and with which I disagree. If you are wanting to have your theological and ecclesiastical views challenged during the mentorship—but for your benefit—book a free call and we'll see.

In Conclusion

man on top of mountain
man on top of mountain
man on top of mountain

You now have enough information to make a decision. It’s a simple one: book a free call, or don’t. There’s no pressure here. My goal is to help you move forward with clarity.

The men I work with don’t just “feel better.” They make real, lasting changes:

Changed careers and increased their income

Lost 30+ pounds and rebuilt their physical strength

Found freedom from fear, shame, and habitual sin

Discovered their God-given purpose and began walking in it

Set boundaries and rebuilt respect in their marriages

In other words, they found Confidence, Clarity, and Freedom in Jesus Christ.

And you can too.

As a thank you for reading this far, mention the code COMPLETIONIST on your call to receive $200 off mentorship if you enroll this month. If that matters to you, great. If not, the call is still free.

Book your clarity call now.